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If you've scrolled through Grindr, Tinder, or even queer sections of TikTok recently, you'll have seen "top," "bottom," or "verse" in a bio or two. It's important to note that each of these means something a little different to each person, so no one definition is perfect. Here is a general idea of what it means to be a top, bottom, or verse.

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Tops generally prefer to take a more active role in sex by acting as the person who penetrates, gives oral sex, or does other sexual acts. For people with penises, this can mean wanting to be the person penetrating rather than receiving. For people with vaginasit can mean preferring to give oral sex rather than receive, according to queer publication Autostraddle.

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Because queer sex can look many different ways, being a top doesn't necessarily refer to the specifics of how sex is had. Instead, it refers to a power dynamic in which one person is in control and the other person takes the lead. Within the category of "top," there are subsections that may refer to the specifics of how people like to have sex.

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A "stone top" refers to someone who only likes to "give" during sex and not receive. This can mean penetration, oral sex, or other acts and comes from the term "stone butch" which was a common masculine gender expression in lesbian spaces in the s, 80s, and 90s, and is still used today by some people within the community.

Bottoms typically like to receive during sex, whether that means oral sex, being penetrated during sex, or other sexual acts. However, like with tops, the specifics of the sex aren't as important as the power dynamic.

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Generally, bottoms are people who relinquish control during sex and follow the lead of the person topping them. But that doesn't mean bottoms can't be assertive and active during sex. While some bottoms may be open to topping every so often, there are of bottoms who never like to be the person penetrating or giving oral sex.

Like stone tops, "stone bottoms" are firm about their boundaries on touching their partners and not like to be the person penetrating or giving oral sex.

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Sometimes referred to as "pillow princesses," stone bottoms face the brunt of the jokes in TikTok videos like this one directed at people for specific sexual preferences within the queer community. People often insinuate stone bottoms are "less gay" or "pretending to be gay" in TikTok videos if they are firm about not wanting to perform sexual acts like oral and penetration on their partners.

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This kind of harassment in TikTok videos like these is called "bottom shaming. Verses or switches are what they sound like — people who like to top and bottom interchangeably during sex. Verse folks are generally less concerned with labeling themselves and their sexual dynamic and more focused on keeping their sexual interactions fluid, though some verses do lean towards the top or bottom side of the spectrum.

It's crucial to note that while these labels exist, all sexual dynamics between people look different.

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No two bottoms, switches, or tops are going to look the same and have the same sexual dynamic with their partner. World globe An icon of the world globe, indicating different international options. Get the Insider App. A leading-edge research firm focused on digital transformation. Tops, bottoms, and verses or, "switches" are terms that refer to sexual preferences within the queer community. Tops generally like to be the more dominant person during sex, while bottoms follow their lead.

Verses generally like to switch between sexual positions of power with their partners.

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