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Some forums can only be seen by registered members. View detailed profile Advanced or search site with Search Forums Advanced. After much reading on the American dating scene, here's the way I see it. Men like the hunt and the fun of the conquest. Women like being chased, pursued, romanced and the sex also. Eventually, two people find each other and get married. My guess is that the find the best catch they've found, "the pick of the litter", so to speak. For women this usually means she find's him attractive, he has enough money to satisfy her, and her friends and family approve also.
Same pretty much for him, only concern on the money side and more of a focus on her attractiveness and sexual enthusiasm. So they get married, but along the way, the find out they didn't quite get what they bargained for.
The spouse becomes less attractive, or has other liabilities, less sex. But also, what happens is life isn't as fun as it used to be; they miss the chase, the attention of other men, the sexual variety. So men, but moreso, women, get bored. Women have less to lose by a divorce, since she will get a very nice settlement. Boredom, conflict, lack of sex and fun, will lead to cheating, cheating le to divorce, divorce gets them back to where they really prefer, chasing, being pursued, and a variety of lovers. Monogomy for most means monotony, and so you have most adults going from lover to lover.
They might meet up for an occasional roll in the sack with someone, but they find they like life best with themselves and the cat. Originally Posted by funymann. People marry for happiness. Yeah, they think getting married is going to make them happy. However, marriage is something that you make happy.
Like a person that brings a dish to pass at a gathering. You bring something to the table that is good and enjoyable. If you are just the one coming up to the table and all you do is complain People just arent ending up with who they really wanted to be with. Most of these relationships someone settles and Ltr eventually marriage of times by ALOT. When your relationship is built on settling it's not gonna last.
A low divorce rate is no indication that people are happy, fulfilled, or in healthy relationships. I know people like to say that people get divorced at the drop of a hat, but I've never, ever know that to be true. Location: Up above the world so high!
The reasons so many marriages and long term relationships don't work out is pretty basic First of all, it's never been easier or more socially acceptable to leave. Originally Posted by lovesMountains. Originally Posted by Prairieparson.
Originally Posted by Ticatica. I think a lot of times the individuals need to work on themselves but are blaming their mate for not making them happy. I've dated a lot of people who seem to want to be entertained and distracted or even get high from their time with me. It's like the relationship is their drug and when the high wears off, they walk. I think they don't want to think of themselves badly. They probably have a negative idea of the "type" of person who isn't marriage material. So husband automatically just gets visitation.
What a great deal??
Not only that, but he's forking over big time for child support, and yet has no control how she spends it. She will often get the house. My brother ended up having to live in my parents basement to get along for several years.
Lots of other stories along this line. You'll have to look hard to find stories where the woman got the short end of the stick. And let's get more specific why a lot of marriage don't work out. So most of the time, women are the cause of the divorces. Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick.
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Remember Me. View detailed profile Advanced or search site with. Search Forums Advanced. 6 of Location: Northern Wisconsin 10, posts, read 8, times Reputation: Advertisements After much reading on the American dating scene, here's the way I see it. Quote: Originally Posted by funymann People marry for happiness. Quote: Originally Posted by lovesMountains The reasons so many marriages and long term relationships don't work out is pretty basic Quote: Originally Posted by Prairieparson So men, but moreso, women, get bored.Most Men Will Eventually Get Married or Be In a LTR
Quote: Originally Posted by Ticatica I think a lot of times the individuals need to work on themselves but are blaming their mate for not making them happy. Quote: Originally Posted by Prairieparson aspentree: You're kidding right?? City-Data Forum Message. Cancel Changes.
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